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Ms HeartBeat

Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show!


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Ms. HeartBeat (Deborrah Cooper), a social researcher, dating expert, author and advice columnist, serves as producer and host of The Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show. With almost 20 years of relationship industry experience, Ms. HeartBeat provides reliably witty, often hilarious and informative advice about modern dating issues. She is the author of the Top Black Books of 2007 Award Winning guide to modern dating: "Sucka Free Love - How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged", "24 Types of Suckas to Avoid" and "The Black Church...Where Women Pray and Men Prey!" Order your copies on Amazon.Com. Join Deborrah and exciting guests as they discuss a wide variety of relationships based subject matter on Sunday nights at 6:30 p.m. (PST).

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The pick up artist industry is an amazing one ... men around the world who claim that women are second class citizens, need to submit to them, are nothing but ho's, etc. are paying $5000-10000 for a weekend to learn how to understand... more

RFS is a recently recognized affliction suffered by millions of black women. Most do not know they have it, as the rhetoric is dispensed on a daily basis, and many have built up a resistance over the years. Rhetoric Fatigue Syndrome is the... more

An article came out today that claimed black women are spending too much time and effort going to school, when they should instead be spending that time focusing on men and marriage. As you can imagine, it created quite an uproar.... more

Were you aware of the fact that there are three main stages that every relationship passes through from first meeting to happily ever after? That's right, there are three primary stages to building a real and lasting relationship,... more

Have you noticed what I've noticed... that most black males are suffering from some form of SERIOUS mental illness? The vast numbers of those displaying behavioral traits of a sociopath is frightening. Others display the traits and... more

No is a complete sentence in my book, one that establishes boundaries and places limits. Personally, "no!" is my favorite word! However, I've noticed over the years that many men don't want to hear "no!" from the mouths of women. Most... more

Last week I posted one of what I call my PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENTS which stated PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT #1507 This is a reminder to all Black women who find themselves on that "I'mma give a nigga a chance... more

Dr. Alduan Tartt has a video on You Tube entitled Why Can't Successful Black Women Find a Black Man (follow up) which I suggest you watch before tonight's broadcast. We'll be going over the 7 points that HE says men are looking for in... more

Woman gets an engagement ring and she is very happy. We wait and wait for a wedding inviation but none comes. How long should an engagement be before a woman becomes suspicious that she has been given what I call a SHUT UP... more

Are we saying that this applies to every single black woman in the universe? Certainly not, but there are some serious problems with black women when it comes to how they view, vet, assess and establish boundaries with black men.... more
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