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Ms HeartBeat

Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show!


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Ms. HeartBeat (Deborrah Cooper), a social researcher, dating expert, author and advice columnist, serves as producer and host of The Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show. With almost 20 years of relationship industry experience, Ms. HeartBeat provides reliably witty, often hilarious and informative advice about modern dating issues. She is the author of the Top Black Books of 2007 Award Winning guide to modern dating: "Sucka Free Love - How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged", "24 Types of Suckas to Avoid" and "The Black Church...Where Women Pray and Men Prey!" Order your copies on Amazon.Com. Join Deborrah and exciting guests as they discuss a wide variety of relationships based subject matter on Sunday nights at 6:30 p.m. (PST).

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Black men lose their minds when a sistah says "I don't need a man!" All sorts of accusations about what is wrong with her are usually what follows - from being gay to carrying emotional baggage after being damaged in past relationships. I... more

No is a complete sentence in my book, one that establishes boundaries and places limits. Personally, "no!" is my favorite word! However, I've noticed over the years that many men don't want to hear "no!" from the mouths of women. Most... more

SUZANNE VENKER has written extensively about politics, parenting, and the influence of feminism on American society for more than a decade. Suzanne has appeared on The View, Fox & Friends, Fox's former Dayside with Linda Vester,... more

Last week I posted one of what I call my PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENTS which stated PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT #1507 This is a reminder to all Black women who find themselves on that "I'mma give a nigga a chance... more

Dr. Alduan Tartt has a video on You Tube entitled Why Can't Successful Black Women Find a Black Man (follow up) which I suggest you watch before tonight's broadcast. We'll be going over the 7 points that HE says men are looking for in... more

Its damn near 2013 and modern women enjoy all kinds of freedoms that were forbidden or deemed unladylike generations ago. However, is there a line to how far women should go to be modern and assertive when it comes to romance?... more

Woman gets an engagement ring and she is very happy. We wait and wait for a wedding inviation but none comes. How long should an engagement be before a woman becomes suspicious that she has been given what I call a SHUT UP... more

Are we saying that this applies to every single black woman in the universe? Certainly not, but there are some serious problems with black women when it comes to how they view, vet, assess and establish boundaries with black men.... more

Women complain that many men are distant emotionally in their relationships, giving her the feeling that he has one foot in and one foot out of the relationship. He's not really 100% there, but he isn't leaving either. What is it that makes... more

How is femininity defined for the modern woman? Is the definition of feminine different for black women than it is women of other races? How does "the hood" dampen the ability of the black woman to express traditional femininity? It's a... more
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