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Ms HeartBeat

Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show!


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Ms. HeartBeat (Deborrah Cooper), a social researcher, dating expert, author and advice columnist, serves as producer and host of The Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show. With almost 20 years of relationship industry experience, Ms. HeartBeat provides reliably witty, often hilarious and informative advice about modern dating issues. She is the author of the Top Black Books of 2007 Award Winning guide to modern dating: "Sucka Free Love - How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged", "24 Types of Suckas to Avoid" and "The Black Church...Where Women Pray and Men Prey!" Order your copies on Amazon.Com. Join Deborrah and exciting guests as they discuss a wide variety of relationships based subject matter on Sunday nights at 6:30 p.m. (PST).

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Last year the website AshleyMadison put out a press release that said the day after Valentine's Day was the biggest day of the year for women to cheat. With that in mind, why do so many men resist doing anything for the woman they... more

All women have the right to control their fertility in the U.S. However, this was not always the case. And there is a contingent of Black men that resent and attack Planned Parenthood as being a racist organization started by Margaret Sanger,... more

Single black women are frequently called upon by male relationship experts to date men not on their level educationally, professionally, mentally and economically - to find men with potential and give "a good brotha" a chance.... more

Both online and offline in the real world, folks lie lie and lie some more - most times for no discernable reason. What is the reason that single men lie? Do their reasons vary greatly from the reasons women lie? Discussion includes a... more

Vanessa and Kobe Bryant reached a settlement in their divorce earlier this week. She will receive three Southern California mansions and $75 million in cash. Folks are UPSET that Kobe's wife of ten years should get that kind of money... more

With Black men rejecting religion and the commitments of marriage and family, why the interest in and push for polygynous marriages? Black men across the country repeatedly state that monogamy is counter to their nature and that... more

Ladies, would you give your man a freaky birthday or anniversary gift, like a massage with a "happy ending" or another woman in bed with y'all? Or do you see this as threatening t0 your relationship and nothing you'd want to do? Or... more

It's the first day of a new year, 2012 to be exact. And you and your cronies Me Myself and I celebrated another New Year's eve together. With Valentine's Day coming up its time to get real with yourself and figure out why you're still single... more

Within the last 18 months there have been dozens of stories in the news detailing sexual assaults on Black youths, both male and female. Most of the accused perpetrators have been trusted and influential members of the community -... more

Some men really look forward to being married due to their upbringing and socialization, while others are content to be perennial bachelors. However ALL men have expectations about what the role of "my wife" entails. Do men really... more
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