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Ms HeartBeat

Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show!


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Ms. HeartBeat (Deborrah Cooper), a social researcher, dating expert, author and advice columnist, serves as producer and host of The Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show. With almost 20 years of relationship industry experience, Ms. HeartBeat provides reliably witty, often hilarious and informative advice about modern dating issues. She is the author of the Top Black Books of 2007 Award Winning guide to modern dating: "Sucka Free Love - How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged", "24 Types of Suckas to Avoid" and "The Black Church...Where Women Pray and Men Prey!" Order your copies on Amazon.Com. Join Deborrah and exciting guests as they discuss a wide variety of relationships based subject matter on Sunday nights at 6:30 p.m. (PST).

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Syndicated sex and relationship columnist Isadora Alman, MFT (Ask Isadora), sits in with us tonight to discuss the importance of good communication both in and out of bed, and what we can do to improve communication with... more

Discussion of relationships between mismatched couples that have no real future. Why do so many singles involve themselves in relationships that are basically a waste of time, providing nothing but emptiness, distance, stress, loneliness and... more

Women often profess to being terrified of being alone. Some women, enter into relationships that are painful, cold or abusive even after a little voice in their head says "this guy is bad news!" Why do women and even some men have such a... more

We continue our discussion from Wednesday night (January 20, 2010) and delve deeper into the issue of higher education, earning power, female professional and career success, and the impact a college education may have on who an... more

What is behind the conflict between Black men and Black women? Most of it would seem to be a major difference in foundational principles and beliefs about what makes a man, what makes a woman, and what makes a... more

Why do so many men insist they need MAGNUM size when in reality they need the "muy pequeño" sized one. Size DOES matter chump, and it matters even more that you know what to do with what you got. We will also talk about the... more

There is a contingent of Black men online and in print media that love to quote the statistic: "70% of Black women are single!" This statement is shouted and repeated with the utmost excitement and conviction. It is usually followed by... more

We've all kissed frogs and stood around waiting for him or her to turn into Royalty. Why don't more singles recognize when the person they are dating is a real loser and not worth the time or energy they've put into building... more

Why do some women choose bad boys over and over and never learn to move past them? What is it about "good guys" that makes women yawn? Is it true that the "good guys" really have the same motivations as the "bad boys," they're... more

An interesting flip on the thought that men should always be in control and running things! In this lifestyle choice, the female is the dominating partner that rules the male with a no-nonsense expectation of adherence to her... more
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