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Ms HeartBeat

Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show!


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Ms. HeartBeat (Deborrah Cooper), a social researcher, dating expert, author and advice columnist, serves as producer and host of The Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show. With almost 20 years of relationship industry experience, Ms. HeartBeat provides reliably witty, often hilarious and informative advice about modern dating issues. She is the author of the Top Black Books of 2007 Award Winning guide to modern dating: "Sucka Free Love - How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged", "24 Types of Suckas to Avoid" and "The Black Church...Where Women Pray and Men Prey!" Order your copies on Amazon.Com. Join Deborrah and exciting guests as they discuss a wide variety of relationships based subject matter on Sunday nights at 6:30 p.m. (PST).

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The friend zone is like the penalty box of dating, only you can never get out. Once a girl decides you're her 'friend', it's game over. You've become a complete non-sexual entity in her eyes, like her brother, or a lamp so says Ryan Reynolds... more

Apparently, dating is a lost art form! Spending time getting to know someone, patiently discovering who and what they are over a period of months seems to be a concept that is foreign to singles in 2011. Men don't want to pay for dates... more

Discussion of the recent spate of women in the news that are accused of cutting off the genitals of their husbands. The news reports share the arrest information, but what we want to know is "what would motivate a woman to behave in such... more

Women often hear that men are concerned with a woman's fertility and her ability to bear children, while excusing themselves from such limits due to men's ability to produce sperm well into their senior years. Both men and women have... more

As black women continue to rise in educational and professional accomplishments, they must battle the negative, destructive stereotypes portrayed in the media. What drives these myths and misconceptions? Why are black... more

Around the world men think they are really putting it down on women when in reality, men's lack of skills in the bedroom make women roll their eyes in frustration and avoid having sex. How can men be completely and utterly... more

Black men are big fans of the Biblical principle of female submission. However, they conveniently leave out the portion of the scripture that requires they humble and submit themselves to God and that they be married first. Why is it that a... more

Can a man truly be "trapped" by a woman with a pregnancy and a child when he had sex with her voluntarily? If a male sabotages a woman's birth control to force a pregnancy is she "trapped?" Should a pregnant woman be required to... more

Sha' Givens, author of SEX and the SINGLE CHURCH SISTER sits in with us to night as we explore the real life challenges confronting single, contemporary women in the new millennium. This faith-based relationship and wellness guide... more

It doesn't matter if she wore makeup. Or if she hung out with older boys at the playground, or if she dressed older than she was. Nor does it matter that she bragged about sex on her Facebook page. All that matters is that she was just... more
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