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Ms HeartBeat

Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show!


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Ms. HeartBeat (Deborrah Cooper), a social researcher, dating expert, author and advice columnist, serves as producer and host of The Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show. With almost 20 years of relationship industry experience, Ms. HeartBeat provides reliably witty, often hilarious and informative advice about modern dating issues. She is the author of the Top Black Books of 2007 Award Winning guide to modern dating: "Sucka Free Love - How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged", "24 Types of Suckas to Avoid" and "The Black Church...Where Women Pray and Men Prey!" Order your copies on Amazon.Com. Join Deborrah and exciting guests as they discuss a wide variety of relationships based subject matter on Sunday nights at 6:30 p.m. (PST).

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Discussion of several scenarios where women faced tough choices about the behaviors and statements of people in their lives. Some women reacted swiftly and decisively to situations they felt were suspect or harmful; other women... more

Some men think all dates should be Dutch treat, or cost no more than $10. If a woman refuses to date a guy with a $10 dating policy, does that mean she is a gold digger? If a woman goes out with a guy on a $10 date, is there a greater... more

What do you say to a man that says "all women, even if its unintentional, like jerks and douches because they are manlier than a nice guy. Because they dominate, perhaps what people would call a dick. Men that are douches get... more

When you encounter a black woman that wears her hair natural be it a fro, puff, twists, locs, braids or a curly style - how do you feel about her? As more and more black women drop weaves, relaxers and flat irons in favor of natural... more

Men will say they want a nice girl, one that is good morals, a good mother, blah blah blah, but that isn't what they look for. That isn't what turns them on. And that is not what they think about when they imagine themselves married. We will... more

Black Women Have Normalized Physical and Emotional Abuse Since the news broke on Friday June 8th 2012 hat ?Mega-church? pastor Creflo A. Dollar had been arrested for assaulting his 15-year-old daughter, the black... more

When asked the question "what are the particular benefits of relationships with men for modern women?" there were crickets. After the discussion we had about Steve Harvey's best-seller where he said men only give three things to women in... more

The troop of Nice Guys cry and whine a lot that women don't want them and choose 'dogs' and 'thugs' over them. In reality, women don't choose you guys because you whine and cry and act like a spoiled brat! Women might want you... more

The 2010 blockbuster article which stunned Black America entitled The Black Church: How Black Churches Keep African American Women Single and Lonely went viral and became the topic of discussion on hundreds of radio... more

Victoria Levine is an artist, author, poet and relationship consultant. She wrote her book, Wolf In Sheep's Clothing for these reasons: The world of relationships can be confusing when people have hidden agendas. She believes in truth and... more
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