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Ms HeartBeat

Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show!


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Ms. HeartBeat (Deborrah Cooper), a social researcher, dating expert, author and advice columnist, serves as producer and host of The Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show. With almost 20 years of relationship industry experience, Ms. HeartBeat provides reliably witty, often hilarious and informative advice about modern dating issues. She is the author of the Top Black Books of 2007 Award Winning guide to modern dating: "Sucka Free Love - How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged", "24 Types of Suckas to Avoid" and "The Black Church...Where Women Pray and Men Prey!" Order your copies on Amazon.Com. Join Deborrah and exciting guests as they discuss a wide variety of relationships based subject matter on Sunday nights at 6:30 p.m. (PST).

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The United States has become the world leader in incarceration. Much has been written on the men who make up the majority of the 2 million inmates, but what about the women they leave behind? Tonight we'll be joined by Megan Comfort... more

Why is it that African Americans, especially those shrouded in religious doctrine, are so against feminism? Is the sexism associated with religion so prevalent, so pervasive, that both Black men and women are afraid of women gaining... more

Black women have been bombarded with images which depict Black females as aggressive, masculine, disease ridden, angry and unmarriageable. This problem is compounded by Black men that apparently prefer to date and marry women of... more

So you meet a Black man that has good credit, an education, owns a home, and has a viable source of income. He considers himself to be "on point" and therefore, superior to other men. Part of his belief system is that you, as a mere... more

Deborrah Cooper is the author of the controversial article sweeping radio airwaves and the web: "The Black Church - How The Black Church Keeps African American Women Single and Lonely." This article single-handedly served as the... more

Are you confused about the best time to call, how long you should wait to call the first time after meeting? Or perhaps you wonder how long to stay on the phone, if you should send a text or not, send an email or not, and when and how often... more

How much are Black women, the most religious people on the planet, being held back by their "spiritual leaders" from achieving their dreams? With so many disappointing and downright scandalous church leaders in our midst along with... more

Understanding your dreams can make you smarter, safer and ultimately happier; your dreams are the most no-nonsense guide to love, relationships and the perfect partner for you that you are ever going to find. Once you understand the... more

The past few weeks there has been heavy media attention placed on the woes of educated, professional Black women and what these Sista's need to do to "get a man." Nightline featured a panel discussion moderated by Steve Harvey,... more

The hoop jumping starts in the teens. Young women stab their best friends in the back to get the attentions of a boy and it goes downhill from there. Other young women undergo painful surgery to change their bodies, change their hair and... more
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