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The Heart of a Real Woman

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Thank you Ms. Heartbeat for your support! I look forward to your show! See you next Tue.!

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Keera Kee

Ms. Heartbeat, your insights on the show were on point and realistic. Thanks for tuning in!

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Love of Spoken Word

Had a chance to listen to a few of your shows. Very God. I will be back

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THE BILL SAPEE SHOW

THANKS FOR ALL OF YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE. MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU AND YOUR FAMILY SAFE. HAVE A BLESS AND SAFE WEEK

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hey sis thanks so much for stopping by my show and calling in, i truly appreciated your support=) ti

SUPERCHANCE

SUPERCHANCE

WOW...i just read that article and i was very informed to incorporate the tips the article gave me...i mean i'm not married, but i can still use it as a single man...loved it

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Sandi AKA Howelegant

Thanks for stopping by tonight! I appreciate the love!

The Player Hater

The Player Hater

I only HATE on the Players. If you are not a Player.. don't worry.

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Alan Roger Currie

Enjoyed having you as a Guest Co-Host tonight Deb!

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Thank-You! For everything and I appreciate your support soooooooooo much! Stay Blessed! Love jaxx :)

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Deborrah, you are the bomb! Blessings

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Thank you for stopping by the show last night. It was fun having your input. If you continue stopping by, I'll continue to try to bring fun and entertaining internet radio to you Alexander Roderick -ARod

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It was suprising to see you had Sherry Argov on the show. I just happened to be run across her book at the library a year before. I'm interested to see what she has to say about Why Men Marry Bitches!!

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Greetings, Thank You for the friendship invite. I look forward to listening to your show and networking with you real soon. Here's to continued success and prosperity on BlogTalk Radio. Njideka

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first time listening to your show! outstanding! thanks for a great topic! i don't think sommore nor tocarra need to lose a lotta weight...they'll never be 110lbs, so they should just be who they are! i'll be GLAD to date either one of them!

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I will be listening to this show more often...

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Ms. HeartBeat (Deborrah Cooper), a relationship coach, author and the resident advice columnist of AskHeartBeat.Com, serves as host of Date Smarter, Not Harder! Sucka Free Dating Talk. With almost 20 years of relationship industry experience, Ms. HeartBeat provides reliably witty, often hilarious and informative advice about modern dating issues. She is the author of the Top Black Books of 2007 Award Winning guide to modern dating: "Sucka Free Love - How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged" which explains how YOU can avoid getting caught up with the suckas of the world. Order your copy on Amazon.Com. Join us in the discussion on a wide variety of relationships based subject matter here on Wednesday and Saturday nights at 6:00 p.m. (PST) on BlogTalkRadio!

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Ms. HeartBeat provides witty insight and hard hitting analysis of many common relationship behaviors which prevent singles from finding the love they seek. Guests include authors, therapists, and others with information to share on how you can create more rewarding and longer-lasting romantic relationships. Learn how to date smarter, not harder with advice columnist Deborrah Cooper. To see the full listing of shows, go to SETTINGS, then MY SETTINGS and check the box that says SAFE SEARCH-OFF. Some of our shows have adult subject matter and BlogTalkRadio will prevent you from seeing them.

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    Why Black Women Should Consider Dating Interracially

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    Millions of White men are interested in dating Black women, and outnumber the Black women available for interracial dating several to one. A 10/2/95 article which appeared in Jet Magazine proclaimed that 57% of single White men are open to interracial dating, compared to 51% of single Black women. Almost half the Black female population over the age of 18 in the U.S. is single. We'll explore the nuances of love between races, what Black women need that they aren't getting from Black men, and the fears and stereotypes which may be preventing Black women from opening their arms and hearts to White men. Does love really have a color?
    Cheryl Y. Judice, Ph.D., is a sociologist and professor of African American Studies at Northwestern University and the author of the only scholarly treatise on black females with White men entitled "Interracial Relationships - Black Women and White Men."
    Karyn Folan is the author of a soon to be released book on the same subject entitled "Don't Bring Home A White Boy and other Notions that Keep Black Women From Dating Out." Karyn feels that "Black women aren't doing anything 'wrong' as far as dating goes... but the math is against us if we're only looking at black men. We outnumber them in some major cities at a ratio which some experts say could be as high as 10:1. That means we have two choices: look beyond race for romantic partners or remain single."
    Cicely J. is the author of the soon to be released book Black Men vs. White Men – The Black Woman's Choice. Cicely feels that more and more Black women are falling for their Mr. Right in the form of blonde hair and blue eyes because Darnell, DaQuan, and Tyrone are not equipped to meet her halfway.
    Join me and my guests as we discuss the pros, cons and controversy associated with interracial relationships between White men and Black women!

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    Jealousy, Insecurity and Love?

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    jealousy, envy, insecurity in dating and relationships Tuesday October 28th at 7 pm PST
    Some people like their partners to be jealous, and go out of their way to evoke a jealous reaction. Some people cause severe damage to their relationships with undue, dysfunctional jealousy that causes a great deal of stress. Do you feel a sense of ownership and anger at perceived threats to your relationship, or do you try to hide your feelings of insecurity and jealousy? Join me as we discuss the personal and emotional impact of jealousy and how it may be killing your current relationship or preventing you from finding the love you seek. Read the article What Motivates a Woman to Snoop for more information on this subject.

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    Workplace Romance: True Love vs. Sexual Harassment


    We spend a great portion of our day on our jobs, and many singles have found true love at their place of employment. Though many corporations even have written policies against office romances, most don't care. But what do you do if the love is one-sided? When does an honest expression of interest turn into sexual harassment or stalking? Some people don't take rejection well, and a breakup that has to be handled at the workplace is likely to cause problems for one or both parties. Is it smart to seek love at work or is this something we should avoid at all cost? Joining me to discuss workplace romance and civility in the face of rejection is Clinical Social Worker and Asst. Prof. Daniel L. Buccino, Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine in Maryland.

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    Why Women Struggle With NEXTING a Relationship

    Why do women have such a hard time moving on from a man and a relationship that they KNOW is no good for them? Women will tend to hang on and on, trying in vain to stir the heart of a man that is not interested in them "like that." Women will also waste a lot of time and energy trying to change a loser into the dynamic man they imagine he can be. Women give their beloved men chance after chance, enduring lying and mistreatment time after time. Why do women continue to love and stay with men in spite of the fact that he isn't the one and ain't trying to be? Why wouldn't these women prefer being single to being miserable in a relationship? Is it really true that having ANYONE is better than having no one at all?

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    Why Bother Getting Married?


    Why do single men think that marrying them should be the goal of every woman in the world? Do single women still feel the need to behave in ways that meet the standards and expectations of men? With women filing 65% of the divorces in the U.S., does it make sense to believe that marriage is still a necessity for women, or has it become a rather distasteful option? Husband and wife team Laura and Jay Laffoon are the authors of "The Spark-Igniting Passion, Mystery and Romance in your Marriage and the soon to be released book "He Said She Said - Eight Powerful Phrases That Will Strengthen Your Marriage." The book discusses four phrases every woman needs to hear from her man and four phrases every man needs to hear from his wife. We'll look at the purpose for marriage, modern marriages and men's perspectives and needs in a wife and if those needs are or are not being met by modern American women, as well as how marriage may not be meeting the needs of the modern American woman. Please join us!

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    Male/Female Communication


    Even though men and women are both speaking English, rarely do they fully understand each other. Making assumptions, jumping to conclusions, finger pointing and blaming, excuse making, shutting down and running away all lead to poor communication and hurt feelings. Joining me to find ways to improve communication between the sexes is John Wilder, author of the soon-to-be-released book SECRETS TO ACHIEVING HAPPILY EVER AFTER AND IMPROVING YOUR LOVE LIFE TOO! and Michael of Michael's Quick Help. Michael has been helping people see the nuances of behavior and how that behavior as well as what's said and what's not said (the details) paint a clear picture of what's REALLY transpiring between two people. Join us for what's sure to be an interesting discussion on gender and differences in communication.

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    Violence Against Women and The Increase in Pack Rapes

    We continue our investigation of the issue of gang rape and rape culture with a panel of top experts on violent crimes against women. We'll examine the mentality of males that would willingly participate in such a vicious crime, as well as reasons why males are recording these events on video, laughing about the rape, and refusing to intervene on behalf of the victim.

    Is this truly what our society has become? Where do we go from here?

    Joining me tonight is:

    • Dr. Joyce Morley-Ball (doctorjoyce.com), an Atlanta psychoterapist and Criminal Justice Specialist certified by the National Assn of Forensic Counselors (NAFC);
    • Ben Atherton-Zeman (spokesperson for the National Organization for Men Against Sexism (nomas.org) and a public speaker on issues of violence prevention;
    • Carole Bartholomeaux (b-pr.com), one of the founders of the Center Against Sexual Assault, the first rape crisis organization in Phoenix;
    • Wendell Watkins Sr. (youvestigate.com), who retired from the Metropolitan Police Department (MPD) in Washington, D.C., as Deputy Chief of Police with more than 30 years of experience. Chief Watkins also served as commander of the Washington D.C. Sex Offense Branch for five years and is the author of "You Vestigate, Don't Speculate;"
    • Melody Brooke, MA, LPC, LMFT, a therapist with extensive experience with trauma survivors (ohwowthischangeseverything.com); and
    • The Rock Star of Seduction, Eric Von Sydow, author of the soon to be released book "Metawhore" (hypnotica.org).

    http://www.blogtalkradio.com/askheartbeat/2009/11/05/Gang-Rape--Why-Violent-Crime-Against-Women-is-On-t

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  • Original Air Date:

    Street Harassment


    Catcalls, whistles, ogling females with lustful stares, following females down the street four deep in a car, and even copping a feel - men accost women on the streets daily. Why do men insist on treating women and girls as young as 10 years old with such callous disrespect? Some men react angrily with profanity and name calling when their "greetings" are met with a sneer or flatly ignored. Tonight we discuss street harassment, male sense of entitlement to get a complete stranger's time and attention, and the legal and social ramifications of street harassment. Dr. Carla Stokes Founder and CEO of Helping Our Teen Girls in Real Life Situations, Inc. (HOTGIRLS), Dr. Sulaiman Nuriddin of MenStoppingViolence.Org, Detective Kurt Scanio of the Mesa Police Association, and Lauren Taylor of DefendYourself.Org will be on the panel.

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    Dating Standards - What Are Yours and Why?


    Everyone should have basic standards for dating, but some people have a ridiculous laundry list of standards that may be a bit unrealistic. On the flip side we have men and women that have no standards at all and take anything that comes along just to avoid being alone. Is it unrealistic for an educated Black woman to want to have a similarly educated Black man by her side? Why is it that women think book smarts is so important. Is it unrealistic for Black men to want a submissive woman in 2009? Who do these guys think a woman wants to be under their foot and total control? What is on your list of criteria... what standards do you require a potential mate to meet? Money? Sex? Looks? Just how flexible are you with your list of "must haves" when it comes to dating? Read the article: Can Dating Standards Be "Too" High? as well as the article Why Weak Men Want Submissive Women

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