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Emotional Sistah

Emotional Sistah

Thanks for stopping by my show! I'm sooo glad u did because I LOVE your forum!! I will be downloading and listening to your shows! Fa'sho!

KONSCIOUS_VIBRATIONS

KONSCIOUS_VIBRATIONS

HTTPW/RE-SPECT ! PLEASE FORGIVE IF EYE INTRUDED ON A GATHERING INTENTED FOR GODDESSES EXCLUSIVELY! EYE NOTICE EYE WAS KICKED OUT OF YOUR FORUM ,WHILE LISTENING TO THE ROMANCE,BROMAND,AND HOMANCE SHOW.EYE DID NOT REALIZE THAT IT WAS A EVENT FOR GODDESSES ONLY,OR THAT KONSCIOUS GODS WERE NOT WELCOME TO LISTEN TO RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES DEALING WITH OUR PEOPLE.EYE HOPE YOU ACCEPT MY HUMBLE APOLOGY FOR ATTENDING THE EVENT TO SIMPLY LISTEN.

Country Cannon

Country Cannon

Thank you for your support of The Country Cannon Radio Show. We welcome you as a listener and encourage you to call into the show to share your opinions or views. Thanks! Cannon

SoReady4Luv

SoReady4Luv

Thank you for the friend invite! God bless you&have a Happy New Year!

The Middle Men

The Middle Men

Thank you for listing to our show...we wished you would have joined in on the conversation! but thank you for checking us out and we hope to see you again ....we will checkout your show and thanks again!

RealTalk~RealWoman

RealTalk~RealWoman

Enjoy your holidays & may God continue to bless you in the New Year! jaxx :)

Jaye & The Movement

Jaye & The Movement

This was a very good show

Epop Style Radio

Epop Style Radio

Thank you Ms. Heartbeat for your support! I look forward to your show! See you next Tue.!

Keera Kee

Keera Kee

Ms. Heartbeat, your insights on the show were on point and realistic. Thanks for tuning in!

Love of Spoken Word

Love of Spoken Word

Had a chance to listen to a few of your shows. Very God. I will be back

THE BILL SAPEE SHOW

THE BILL SAPEE SHOW

THANKS FOR ALL OF YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE. MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU AND YOUR FAMILY SAFE. HAVE A BLESS AND SAFE WEEK

lovelyti

lovelyti

hey sis thanks so much for stopping by my show and calling in, i truly appreciated your support=) ti

3kkoCJay

3kkoCJay

WOW...i just read that article and i was very informed to incorporate the tips the article gave me...i mean i'm not married, but i can still use it as a single man...loved it

Sandi AKA Howelegant

Sandi AKA Howelegant

Thanks for stopping by tonight! I appreciate the love!

The Player Hater

The Player Hater

I only HATE on the Players. If you are not a Player.. don't worry.

Alan Roger Currie

Alan Roger Currie

Enjoyed having you as a Guest Co-Host tonight Deb!

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RealTalk~RealWoman

Thank-You! For everything and I appreciate your support soooooooooo much! Stay Blessed! Love jaxx :)

Coach K!

Coach K!

Deborrah, you are the bomb! Blessings

Alexander Roderick

Alexander Roderick

Thank you for stopping by the show last night. It was fun having your input. If you continue stopping by, I'll continue to try to bring fun and entertaining internet radio to you Alexander Roderick -ARod

dwang

dwang

It was suprising to see you had Sherry Argov on the show. I just happened to be run across her book at the library a year before. I'm interested to see what she has to say about Why Men Marry Bitches!!

WellnessExperience

WellnessExperience

Greetings, Thank You for the friendship invite. I look forward to listening to your show and networking with you real soon. Here's to continued success and prosperity on BlogTalk Radio. Njideka

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AWARR

Hi, thanks for coming to the show tonight and marking me as a Fav. I hope you enjoyed the show. Please stop by to the Archives and rate and share your thoughts about the show. I hope everyone came out of the discussion with something positive. Peace and blessings. ~Zen~

60 Min. with Glenn

60 Min. with Glenn

Thank you for listening to my show entitled "MOTHERS! Should your boyfriend be allowed to discipline your child if he's not the father?" Tune in again on Mondays at 9pm EST

DarkGable

DarkGable

first time listening to your show! outstanding! thanks for a great topic! i don't think sommore nor tocarra need to lose a lotta weight...they'll never be 110lbs, so they should just be who they are! i'll be GLAD to date either one of them!

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Brown Suga.

Thank you for your friend Request..Please join us again for another round of excitement on Brown Suga Radio!!!! ~Suga

Hip Talk Radio

Hip Talk Radio

glad to have you as a friend!! One Love!

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Aword4u

Greetings, I pray that you are having a Wonderful day. Thank You, for the Friend Invite. Love and Peace Be With You, Tracy Lawanda

Date Smarter, Not Harder!  

Ms. HeartBeat (Deborrah Cooper), a relationship coach, author and the resident advice columnist of AskHeartBeat.Com, serves as host of Date Smarter, Not Harder relationships talk show. With almost 20 years of relationship industry experience, Ms. HeartBeat provides reliably witty, often hilarious and informative advice about modern dating issues. She is the author of the Top Black Books of 2007 Award Winning guide to modern dating: "Sucka Free Love - How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged" which explains how YOU can avoid getting caught up with the suckas of the world. Order your copy on Amazon.Com. Join us in the discussion on a wide variety of relationships based subject matter here on Wednesday and Saturday nights at 6:00 p.m. (PST) on BlogTalkRadio!

Show Notes

To see the full listing of shows, go to SETTINGS, then MY SETTINGS and check the box that says SAFE SEARCH-OFF. Some of our shows have adult subject matter and BlogTalkRadio will prevent you from seeing them. Deborrah Cooper (Ms. HeartBeat) provides witty insight and hard hitting analysis of many common relationship behaviors which prevent singles from finding the love they seek. Guests include authors, therapists, and others with information to share on how you can create more rewarding and longer-lasting romantic relationships. Learn how to date smarter, not harder with advice columnist and dating expert Deborrah Cooper.

  • Upcoming Episodes

    Is He Husband Material?

    Ms. HeartBeat

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    Category: Romance

    Call-in Number: (347) 327-9215



    He says he will be supportive, loving and a good man. But how will a man SHOW his potential wife those traits with behavior? What are a woman's expectations about a man's behavior towards her, lifestyle, goals, and accomplishments in life prove he has husband potential? What is it that he needs to do ladies to prove to you that he is indeed the man that he says he is, and will be the husband for you that he imagines in his mind?

    Upcoming Episodes

    - Are You Happy Being Single or Not?

    - Blind Dating Pros and Cons

    - Sex Addiction - Reality or Excuse for Bad Behavior?

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    The Warning Signs That You're Dating a Loser

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    We've all kissed frogs and stood around waiting for him or her to turn into Royalty. Why don't more singles recognize when the person they are dating is a real loser and not worth the time or energy they've put into building a relationship?

    Tonight we'll discuss the warning signs you now know (from life experience and getting your head bumped) indicate that someone isn't really the right guy or gal for you.

    Sandra L. Brown, M.A. (CEO of The Institute for Relational Harm Reduction & Public Pathology Education) is a psychopathologist and award-winning author. Her books include How to Spot a Dangerous Man book and workbook, and Women Who Love Psychopaths: Inside the Relationships of Inevitable Harm with Narcissists, Sociopaths and Psychopaths. Dr. LeslieBeth Wish Ed. D. MSS (LoveVictory.Com) also joins me to discuss the behaviors and attitudes singles should be watching for to know they are dating a loser vs. a winner! Participate in the discussion by calling 347-327-9215.

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    Things Men Do That Drive Women Away


    In January we addressed the things women do that drive men away, now it's the ladies' turn! What are the top things men do that run women away from relationships, love, and commitment saying "hell nawww, I'm outta here!"
    Whether you are female dating men that have run you off, or a man that did some of these dastardly deeds women complain of, we want to hear from you. If you have been put into the friend zone or your romance never got off the ground, you may learn why tonight. We'll be discussing traits and behaviors highest on women's lists that make them run in the opposite direction from the men in their lives.

    Listen over your computer by logging onto Date Smarter, Not Harder Talk Show, or participate in the live discussion by calling 347-327-9215.

    Category: Romance
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    Establishing and Maintaining Boundaries

    Women often profess to being terrified of being alone. Some women, enter into relationships that are painful, cold or abusive even after a little voice in their head says "this guy is bad news!" Why do women and even some men have such a hard time establishing and maintaining boundaries with regards to who they allow into their lives and beds?

    Karol Ward LCSW and author of Find Your Inner VoiceKarol Ward, LCSW guests tonight and discusses her book "Find Your Inner Voice." This book will teach you how to make decisions about love, relationships, health and spirituality by using your body as a natural compass. When you learn to trust your instincts and recognize your intuitive voice, you can use them both to make more positive life choices. Karol's articles and expertise have been featured in Cosmopolitan, Experience Life Magazine, CosmoGirl, IDEA Fitness Journal, and Best Body Magazine. Join us! The call-in number is 347-327-9215.

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    The Male Need to Control Women

    Men are socialized to be in command, to rule and win, but what is it about men that makes them feel the need to control women? Controlling behaviors come in many forms - from outright domination, violence, and oppression to more subtle forms like the way he speaks to women or his attempts to manipulate through name-calling or judgments that prey on women's insecurities. What might such male socialization do to the psyches, hearts and dreams of women?

    Tolu author of why and how women are exploited by men worldwideMost women are unaware of the socialization they've been raised under and never question their beliefs about what women should do, be, or say as it regards interactions with males. Our guests tonight bring to light many attitudes and behaviors that rob Black women of their joy and power. Tolu is the author of the eye opening review of world culture and its damaging effects on female children and adults entitled "Why and How Women Are Exploited By Men Worldwide.

    Hasani PettifordHasani Pettiford is an award-winning speaker and author of Why We Hate Black Women, which investigates the stigma of what it means to be black and female in America. This show is guaranteed to provide one of the hottest discussions on Black male/female relationships on BlogTalkRadio. You don't want to miss it! Call in at 347-327-9215.

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    Developing Trust and Intimacy in a New Relationship



    We've entered new year, and along with that will come new romantic relationships. However for many couples, the painful issues from the past (betrayal, cheating, rejection and abandonment) will impact their ability to trust and open up their heart to love. What can we do to provide new partners with the open communication, trust and clean slate they deserve?

    Marty Babits, an experienced psychotherapist, has worked with hundreds of families and couples over the past 25 years will be our guest. Mr. Babits supervises family and couples therapists at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy in NYC and is a Board Certified Diplomate in advanced clinical social work.

    His book The Power of the Middle Ground is an easy to read self–help book that gives clear guidelines and suggestions for improving communication and developing love and intimacy. It features communication tips that are useful for both singles and couples.

    Please join us to discuss the issues that undermine many potentially successful relationships. The call-in number is 347-327-9215.

    Category: Romance
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  • Original Air Date:

    Romance Bromance or Homance?



    This show is for women only! Ladies, when a man doesn't want you long-term and that attitude is quite obvious, why don't you accept it and immediately move on to find real Romance? What are the signs that a man is more into his male buddies and Bromance than he is women? Why don't women demand more from men, instead accepting whatever they can get from him while waiting around, hoping he will change and finally give her what she wants? Ladies, when you are trading your body and heart for a few crumbs of male attention, I call that Homance! Let's talk about it. Call in at 347-327-9215.

    Category: Romance
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  • Original Air Date:

    Black Men, College, Dating and Relationships


    We continue our discussion from Wednesday night (January 20, 2010) and delve deeper into the issue of higher education, earning power, female professional and career success, and the impact a college education may have on who an educated Black woman views as a viable potential mate. The discussion on Wednesday night's show demonstrated that some Black men assume that a degreed person doesn't have much to offer in the way of positive character traits-just a degree. Is this a sly way of putting down those feel obtaining a college education is important? Can't a woman have character, beauty AND education? Are these judgments just another way to put down Black women with standards who are consistently condemned for being "too picky" and to "have ridiculously high standards" by Black men?

    Please join us for this specially scheduled PART TWO broadcast by logging in at http://www.blogtalkradio.com/askheartbeat, or by calling 347-327-9215.

    Category: Romance
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  • Original Air Date:

    Why Black Men Criticize Black Women with Dating Standards


    For several months we've discussed the desire that single, educated, accomplished women of all races have with regards to a mate with a similar level of education, financial acumen, and emotional availability. These standards have been consistently been ridiculed by Black men all over BlogTalkRadio!

    Enough already! Tonight I'll be asking some hard questions: Why do so many Black men feel that a woman seeking an established mate, or a man with a college degree, or a mate with no stray children, or a man that has never been married or locked up in prison, and that has himself together is wrong?

    Why are Black women with standards consistently condemned for being "too picky" by Black men? It would seem that many Black men believe Black women have no right to demand to have a man on her level educationally, emotionally, socially or economically, nor the right to reject any man as a date or potential long-term partner for not meeting her standards.

    We'll be discussing this and other conflicts concerning standards of behavior, achievement and expectations Black women have of the men they want to love and marry tonight. Please join us by logging in at http://www.blogtalkradio.com/askheartbeat, or by calling 347-327-9215.

    Category: Romance
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