Date Smarter, Not Harder!

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Ms. HeartBeat (Deborrah Cooper), a relationship coach, dating expert, author and advice columnist, serves as producer and host of The Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show. With almost 20 years of relationship industry experience, Ms. HeartBeat provides reliably witty, often hilarious and informative advice about modern dating issues. She is the author of the Top Black Books of 2007 Award Winning guide to modern dating: "Sucka Free Love - How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged." Order your copy on Amazon.Com. Join her and exciting guests as they discuss a wide variety of relationships based subject matter on Sunday nights at 5:30 p.m. (PST).

Featured Episode

Why Men Love Bitches!

by Ms HeartBeat
in Romance
on Thu, Jun 12, 2008 UTC

Best selling author Sherry Argov stops by to discuss the principles behind her books "Why Men Love Bitches" and "Why Men Marry Bitches." Sherry breaks down the principles of how men fall in love and stay in love. Her... more

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The Real Reasons Your Woman Won't Sleep With You

by Ms HeartBeat
in Romance
Mon, Feb 6, 2012 02:00AM UTC

Men dont get why their long-term girlfriend or wife loses interest in having sex. What is it that women need from their boyfriends and husbands that they arent getting? The answer is simple, but for some reason, a great many men admit... more

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Female Submission in Dating and Marriage Deux

by Ms HeartBeat
in Romance
on Mon, Feb 20, 2012 02:00AM UTC

Tonight we continue our discussion on the concept of submission, and why it is so important to Black men. Why is it that religions around the world focus so much on male dominance over women? Why is it that men, especially African... more

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Singles Dating Relationships - Four Years on BlogTalkRadio

by Ms HeartBeat
in Romance
on Mon, Feb 27, 2012 01:30AM UTC

Fourth Anniversary show! Can you believe the Date Smarter Not Harder Relationships Talk Show has been on BlogTalkRadio for four wonderful years? All of our loyal listeners are invited to come by and share your thoughts... more

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Black Macho and The Streets - What Makes a Black Man a Man?

by Ms HeartBeat
in Romance
on Mon, Mar 12, 2012 01:30AM UTC

Black scholars writing on Black male/female relationships tend to agree that they are problematic. However, what they do not agree on are the causes of the problems between Black men and women. Some believe that Black men are... more

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Single Black Women Dating Down Men With Potential

by Ms HeartBeat
in Romance
on Mon, Jan 30, 2012 UTC

Single black women are frequently called upon by male relationship experts to date men not on their level educationally, professionally, mentally and economically - to find men with potential and give "a good brotha" a chance.... more

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Why Do People Lie So Much?

by Ms HeartBeat
in Romance
on Sat, Jan 28, 2012 UTC

Both online and offline in the real world, folks lie lie and lie some more - most times for no discernable reason. What is the reason that single men lie? Do their reasons vary greatly from the reasons women lie? Discussion includes a... more

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Female Submission in Dating and Marriage

by Ms HeartBeat
in Romance
on Wed, Jan 25, 2012 UTC

Have you ever asked yourself why religions around the world promote the concept of female submission, and why men, especially Black men, are so enamoured of the word "submit?" When a man believes that female submission... more

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Gold Digging Done Right - Leaving With Millions!

by Ms HeartBeat
in Romance
on Mon, Jan 23, 2012 UTC

Vanessa and Kobe Bryant reached a settlement in their divorce earlier this week. She will receive three Southern California mansions and $75 million in cash. Folks are UPSET that Kobes wife of ten years should get that kind of money... more

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Black Men Black Women and Polygyny

by Ms HeartBeat
in Romance
on Mon, Jan 16, 2012 UTC

With Black men rejecting religion and the commitments of marriage and family, why the interest in and push for polygynous marriages? Black men across the country repeatedly state that monogamy is counter to their nature and that... more

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My Boyfriend Wants a Threesome

by Ms HeartBeat
in Romance
on Mon, Jan 9, 2012 UTC

Ladies, would you give your man a freaky birthday or anniversary gift, like a massage with a "happy ending" or another woman in bed with yall? Or do you see this as threatening t0 your relationship and nothing youd want to do?... more

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It is 2012 - Why Are You Still Single?

by Ms HeartBeat
in Romance
on Mon, Jan 2, 2012 UTC

Its the first day of a new year, 2012 to be exact. And you and your cronies Me Myself and I celebrated another New Years eve together. With Valentines Day coming up its time to get real with yourself and figure out why youre still single... more

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Best Questions to Ask New Dating Partners

by Ms HeartBeat
in Romance
on Wed, Dec 28, 2011 UTC

Lets come up with a list of at least 50 of the really important questions a single man or woman should have the answers to before they commit to a relationship with a new partner.Seems elemantary, doesnt it? Singles dont really know... more

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Childhood Sexual Abuse in the Black Community

by Ms HeartBeat
in Romance
on Mon, Dec 12, 2011 UTC

Within the last 18 months there have been dozens of stories in the news detailing sexual assaults on Black youths, both male and female. Most of the accused perpetrators have been trusted and influential members of the community -... more

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