Will You Compromise Your Standards Just To Keep A Man?

The things we do for love.......

Once again we here at LanceScurv ponder the questions that most are afraid to answer.

The topic and inquiry of this week's program is entitled "Will You Compromise Your Standards Just To Keep A Man?"

May I remind you that the title was worded in such a manner as if it were asking this question of women but in actuality we are including everyone and every lifestyle.

So many of us have in fact in the present or at one time in our lives did something to keep a mate that we wouldn't usually do under the heading of being one who has righteously compromised in . But where does the line between compromising something simple end and going overboard to sell ourselves short begin?

You know that you have compromised your standards when you look back on a relationship that has ended and regretted what you did to keep that man.......

"I don't know WHAT I was thinking to give in to the idea of having a threesome with my man and another woman especially now that he ran off with her and I've been left all alone looking like a fool! What made matters worse was HE was somebody that I met at the club two months ago and SHE was my lifelong childhood friend! Seems like you can't bend a little at all to keep your man happy anymore!"

I will refrain from preaching but I must say this - hindsight is always 20/20 and to compromise your standards is a surefire way to find yourself in sad state of affairs and surely without the prize of a mate that you thought you would have in the end!

But for some reason human nature is a stubborn thing and we always seem to think that we can break the rules or overstep the boundaries that others have always failed to defeat.