The Female Solution: Sexually Incompatible: How Can You Fix That?

Sexual intimacy is the most important ingredient in creating a sustainable marriage.  It creates a bond like no other on Earth.  We are evolving as a human family out of levels of ignorance to levels of enlightenment regarding our sexuality.  In the distant past, men and women, like the animals, understood their bodies, knew their cycles of fertility, planned pregnancies, and taught their children in private discussions on manhood and womanhood how to achieve maximum pleasure from the act of sexual intimacy.  Then various cultures went through a Dark Age of ignorance, coinciding with spiritual ignorance, in which sexuality was condemned as evil and dirty and men and women were no longer taught about their own bodies. Women were expected to know nothing about sex, and in their virgin ignorance accepted whatever they experienced from men, even if it was uncomfortable or painful.  Men secretly learned about sex from prostitutes, or practiced on who they considered "bad girls."  Today, the public condemnation of sexuality is gone, but so is the understanding of the spirituality of our sexuality and the responsibility for the well being of our mate. And there is still the underlying philosophy of guilt in shame taught in many of our religions, that keeps parents from openly discussing sexuality with their children. So what happens when a couple discovers they are sexually incompatible? Who can they talk to that can give them real knowlege on how to fix the problem?