Have Your Parents Programmed You For Failure? Learn How To Reprogram Yourself!

Our lives are manifestation of what we believe about ourselves. It starts with who our parents told us we were. Were you told you were poor? Disadvantaged?  Lower class? Dumb? Lazy? Too fat? Not working hard enough? Not attractive enough? Your parents may have unknowingly instilled a victim complex in you from childhood, to compensate for their own feelings of failure.  Most of us have been attacked by our parents for being inadequate, their way of using fear to motivate us to try harder. Unknowingly, they often caused quite the opposite, instilling in us the belief that we really are inadequate. We fail at something then defensively blame others, rather than learn from our mistakes and have the confidence to try again. This affects everything from education, to jobs, to marriages, to raising our own children. Sometimes the pressure from our parent's attacks can cause us turn to alcohol or drugs for a temporary escape. Then we actually do become the failures they warned us we would be. Unless we consciously undo their negative programming, our lives become manifestations of their fear based parenting. We have to stop the cycle of fear and take control of our lives. Honestly look at your life today.What negative thoughts about yourself are you holding on to? How do you replace them with positive thoughts in order to manifest the life you really want?