Life After Divorce-"Children, Ex's, and New Relationships"

Everyone's divorce story is different, maybe you've been married for decades, or only a year.  Maybe you initiated the divorce or maybe it was your spouse's idea. Maybe you have children, maybe you don't.  Maybe your relieved, or maybe your devastated . . . maybe a little of both.   Whether you have been divorced for years, going through a divorce, or newly divorced, the question still may be: How do I heal? Where do I go from here? How do I deal with my Ex on special occastions? And if I have children, how do I make sure that I am not adding to the pain of divorce in the way I am dealing with them.