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In this episode Lisa A. Romano, Certified ACoA Life Coach, Mentor and Author helps we wounded Adult Children from dysfunctional homes understand how we can use pain to help us transcend our wounds and how by 'reframing' how we experience our pain can also speed along our total recovery.
If you have been lost, hang in there as Lisa explains the purpose of pain and how we can learn to appreciate duality in our lives.
As Lisa explains, there can be no understanding of light without some understanding of darkness. There can be no integration without understanding ideas of separation. There can be no experience of contentment without some experience of discontentment. It is our hope that by listening to this recording as well as many of Lisa's others, that your ideas about self, your past, healing, and about recovery will help you reframe your perceptions about pain for the purpose of healing completely.
In this episode we will be discussing one of the most critical invisible wounds adult children of alcoholics experience.
The need to feel 'seen' on a psychological, emotional and spiritual level is crucial to a child's ability to define for themselves who they are and their unique experiences. Without sufficient energy bonding with mother and or father, children spend their lives seeking to gain this much needed connection in others. Sadly children from dysfunctional homes most often do not attract healthy partners, friends, coworkers and etc. Because this is a cause and effect universe, and becasue one of the first agenda's of a soul is to feel 'seen' by mother and father, wounded adult children unconsciously on an energetic level attract similar energies to their parents, in search of sealing that bond. Understanding how and why we adult children of alcoholics and narcissists, are unknowingly leaking energetically, as well as attracting abusers, helps us gain clarity and the tools we need to make life long changes that impact our lives in positive ways.
As adult children of alcoholics, many of us do not even realize just how wounded we truly are. Because we have ridiculously high threhholds for pain, we do not always consciously comprehend how dank our energy bodies are. Many of us have been living in such deep states of survival for so long, we are unaware our emotional set point is one that has us unknowingly avoiding pain rather than seeking joy in our lives. Because so many of us were taught that our needs were unimportant, we no longer seek guidance from within, and so we wind up settling for what shows up.
The most sad aspect of our realities is the fact that we are creators and capable of transcending ANY experience. But for adult children of alcoholics--if we do not even know where our pain is--or where our wounds are--we often times miss the transcendental experience embracing the pain can create. Embracing the pain is an opportunity to create new realities and to live life in new vibrations, literally embracing the opportunity to experience a New Earth in a whole new way.
Adult children of alcoholics come from long lines of dank energy beings, and because our families have been drenched in denial, it can be quite a wobbly experience as one approaches a true healing journey. In this episode we will be discussing the Hero's Path of An Adult Child of an Alcoholic and or Narcissist, and how we can use our experiences to propel us to higher vibrations, so to experience the world in a whole New Way as higher energy beings, living our lives intentionally on a Quantum Level, for the purpose of living our Higher Self Realities through the process of transcendence.
Children With Other Voices is focused on toddlers and children with speech and language delays. It is an open,safe and has many magical doors of new information, shared knowledge, personal experiences and triumphant victories. I personally share the small forward movements of my daughters journey. We use the Dohgon wonder wheels it is an wonderful tool.
This minor challenge NEVER means that these star children are academically, socially orintellectually inferior..MAKE NO MISTAKE ABOUT IT. Pull up a seat and join us each week at 8: 30 pm Saturday night. Call in or just listen. Every now and again we will have special guest host or hostess.
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"Children Don't Come With Directions," is a show that gives successful parents an opportunity to share parenting tips. All advice given does not work for all children. Anyone listening to this show is advised that we share the tips that have worked for us. Parents Loving Children Talk and guests do not advise listeners use tips given (and are released from the responsibility of any outcomes of advice listeners actually use). IN OTHER WORDS, "TRY SUCCESSFUL PARENTING TIPS AT YOUR OWN RISK!"
1 Thessalonians 5:5
You know there’s a lot of talk in new age spiritual circles about “the light” and being “light workers” but this is actually a term and a concept stolen from the Bible.
In our focus scripture for today’s message Paul tells us we are all children of the light and then Jesus tells us that we are the light of the world!
Now Jesus refers to believers as both salt and light and both need to be applied, but when salt’s applied, it goes inward and disappears, whereas light comes from within and always appears.
The salt speaks of our character whereas light speaks of our testimony.
And what the world needs is both penetration and illumination, both character and confession.
Look at these utterly profound words from the lips of Jesus.
See Matthew 5:14-16 KJV
 Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid.
 Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house.
 Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
So stay tuned because in today’s message we’ll learn the who, what and “hows” of being spiritual light AKA "Children of The Light"!
This is a show about the value of our children and how they should know the real meaning of Christmas. There is an obvious reason why a baby is born without worldly knowledge to loving parents. We parents are expected to teach them how to walk, talk, and eat. Before parents send their toddlers to school, society and God expects us to nourish the little ones with life substances. Our children depend on us to learn how to live, grow; remain fit and healthy in more ways than one.
That includes teaching them the meaning of Christmas, how and why Jesus Christ was born. It is parents’ responsibility to set an example and give our little ones a meaning of life’s foundation that will last them a lifetime. Proverbs 22:6 “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”
Our special guest, Detra and John Taylor, who raised two boys, along with nieces and nephews in a Christian home will share their experiences. Faith Eurie-Turner who’s Blogs can be found on http://professionalnet.ning.com/ will also be out special guest. Join us for a real Christmas threat that makes you feel good and reinforces your belief in the ways to raise your children.
PLEASE NOTE THIS SHOW IS RECORDED LIVE. THERE WAS A QUESTION FROM A LIVE CALLER THAT INCLUDED SOME ADULT LANGUAGE.
WHO ARE YOU RAISING YOUR CHILDREN TO BE?
We all have a great many hats to wear. With each relationship that we have there comes with it responsibility. Let's talk about the relationships that we have with our children, and what we are training them to become. Are you doing a good job? Could you use some help?
It is not uncommon for adult children of alcoholics to attract energy beings who are very similar to their parents. It is quite common in fact for adult children to attract alcoholics as partners and to have children with drug and alcoholc issues. I hear some wondering, "But how could this be? I did not drink, and I hated my father who was an alcoholic. How could I have attracted a spouse who drinks and have children who drink and do drugs?" The reality Dear One, is that we attract what we are on a vibrational level, and your childhood experiences have created certain emotional set points. These set points are no different than a radio station. So like moths to a flame, children who have been abused by alcoholics are tuned up for alcoholics. Why? Because ACoA's understand the dysfunctional love language of an alcoholic, and or narcissistic, denial based being. While a non-codependent being would avoid alcoholics whose actions might not match what is comign out of his/her mouth, and ACoA sees these beings as needing sympathy, help, or love. In addition, because their idea of love is evasive, complicated and confusing, ACoA's match up their energies perfectly with beings who are more than willing to be evasice, complicated and confusing. Taking a Toxic Vibrational Fast is a Fast Pass Way to Facilitate Emotional Healing.
Gina Rolkowski is an Educational Consultant specializing in early childhood education, social and emotional learning and self regulation. She empowers early childhood educators and parents utilizing scientifically proven brain based strategies to develop executive skills necessary for children’s long term success in academic, family, and social environments. She studied at The University of Delaware, The University of Central Florida and earned to degree and did graduate work. She co-authored the Florida Network for Community-Based Early Learning and Professional Development HUBS-Math and Science Workshop Manuals and is an active member of NAEYC (National Association for the Education of Young Children), Delaware Association for the Education of Young Children, Delaware Valley Association for the Education of Young Children and Pennsylvania AssocAiation for Young Children.
In the cycles of world change, the paradigm has shifted from producing assembly-line students to fit the mold of and industrialized mold, to a feeling world in which a growing child must understand themselves to learn how to adapt in a more fluidic and interactive world of information. A fascinating discovery on how we can educate children in the new era!
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Adoption ROCKS!!!!!!! There are children awaiting families and families awaiting children. Hear Brian Hoover, Director of Development, Agape Child and Family Services ( Memphis, TN). You may be the person to bring hope into the lives of these children. Connect, listen, share.