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"Poverty is not the absence of goods, but rather the overabundance of desire." ... Plato. A bumper sticker proclaims, "Whoever dies with the most toys wins." Wins what, besides the stress of attaining, maintaining and losing interest in the object we once desired? Perhaps the winners are those who are least owned by the toys and people they play with.
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