Expressing Affection: Are You and Your Mate Speaking the Same Love Language?

You love your mate. But for some reason, your mate doesn't seem to appreciate all the little things you do to show it. You work hard and bring your money home; she complains that you're gone all the time and don't pay her enough attention. You keep the house clean and his clothes washed; he complains you don't fix yourself up enough and try to look attractive when he's home. Are the two of you speaking the same love language? Or are you miscommunicating and misinterpreting each other over and over again? There are many ways people can say "I love you." How can you learn to understand and appreciate what your mate is trying to say to you, so that you can build a stronger bond and keep your union together?