Got Regrets, Failures and Emptiness? Emotional Unavailability Is Your Answer.

Here is where the magic happens, yet 'here' is NOT where most of us live. We may physically be HERE, but emotionally we're checked out and I'm not talkin' just in relationships, but in many parts of our lives.

Perhaps, we intellectualize everything that comes our way, we put it through our 'rationale' detector and permit ourselves to participate on a surface level and not fully experience the event. You name it--from going on a roller coaster to vacation, to friendships, jobs, even working out...we can place a vacancy sign on our foreheads when it comes to being engaged, present, fulfilled, feeling love and happy.

It's the ol' smoke and mirrors, we believe we're protecting ourselves. What if the other shoe drops? What if the sky falls? What if they lie, cheat or steal? Better stay disconnected and unavailable.

Actually....the quickest way to destruction is to be emotionally unavailable....life is meant to be experienced viscerally--organically--emotionally--it is EXPERIENTIAL! How can we do what we love, if we can't feel it? How can we love someone else, if we're blocking it? Heck, how can we love ourselves if we're wrapped up in our intellect, playing it safe?

We can't and therefore the potential for living our best life is nonexistent. Want to change your life? Find out the tools to become emotionally available without the fear of decimation.