Breaking The Curse Of Enabling !

I am so tired of hearing and seeing so many families throw there lives away by enabling loved ones in there addictions and behaviors ! I believe Enabling is second behind Mental Health as a leading health epidemic in America !  Grandparents raising there Grandkids because there child is irresponsible and won't do the right thing ! Parents letting there grown children live with them just because they are irresposible ! And the main thing is, Why do you give money to a addict and klnow there and addict ? What happened to tough love, especially for men Who's parents rather they live at home instead of learnig a lesson by stayng in a Shelter or Streets ? What happened to tough Love !