Serenity Sisters

SOBER SEX

When is it OK to get some in recovery?  Should you wait a year.  If you have sex with someone that doesn't quite have 1 year, are you a 13th Step Preditor?  Should you be intimate with someone you go to meetings with, or is it like craping where you sleep?  How do you approach someone.   Before, when high or intoxicated, we just went for it... and occasionally scored.  But is that taking advantage of someone?  Is that practicing the deadly sin of lust?  Is it selfish?  Is there danger in not fulfilling your desires?  Could abstinence actually lead to relapse, leaving you with the thought that you were able to be satisfied when you were drunk or high?  We all want it.  It's human nature to need it.  But how do we go about getting it... in the right way?  Is there a "right way"?  How do we handle it when we get turned down?  Is that a danger that's too costly to pursue?

This is going to be a fun show talking about the things we all think about, but don't want to talk about, but really want.