"If you like it then you should've put a ring on it." NOT!!!

This is not necessarily so. Just because I "like" you, it doesn't mean you're worthy of a lifetime commitment. Men may absolutely LOVE 50% of you. We may be hoping and praying you can improve on 15% - 30% MORE before we decide to marry. We observe how a Woman deals with pressure, finances, death, friends, conflict, etc. If we don't see that we are a good fit, we retreat. Join in on this potentially controversial topic!