The Pros and Cons in believing in "Soulmates"

"The One or your Soul mate is probably more harmful to us than helpful. I think it's more harmful because it is an ASSUMPTION, not even backed up spiritually. There isn't an exact ONE created for you or anybody else. Bottom line, choosing a mate requires your THINKING, along with your FEELING, and people don't want to be responsible for that choice, especially if it keeps failing."