IS HE JUST SENSITIVE OR ...WELL...UH... A B*TCHASS ?

HYPERMASCULINTY VS. HYPOMASCULINITY.

Where does HE FALL?

Ahh...here we go again. JODECI vs. BOYZ II MEN.

 The time honored struggle between "the poetry guy"  and...well... "NO BITCHASSNESS". 

Can there EVER be a happy medium between the sensitive guy (paging Ralph Tresvant & Carl Thomas...)  and the macho guy ( ...pause Ike Turner. Just ...pause.)  and the EMO WRECK. (...stop playing the Donny Hathaway please?)

CHOCOLATE CAKE WONDERS...what is a REAL man? Have BLACK MEN really defined what being a real man is or has this "no bitchassness" thing gone WAAAY too far? 

AND how much does insecurity play into these roles? IS it a warning sign of much more dangerous behavior down the road? 

PLUS: How NOT to get stuck in the  "Mommy"  zone with men. (If you want hair grabbin' /bootie slappin' sex ever again...that's the LAST thing you want!!)

A FRESH NEW SLICE OF THE CAKE!!

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