Is there a difference between dealing with the two? Your love and concern with them can leave you stuck.
They will both tell you that they are going to change, while they are in the middle of doing what they say that they are going to change.
One may be a sickness though. The other might be something that he or she feels like they have the right to be......in spite of what they promised you.
So, what do you do to deal with either of them? Leave? Help?