surrendering emotional power

Your partner has just had an affair with your best friend. The trouble is you together, you are celbrities and in the public eye, both sports public figures. As is tradition in soccer the home time line up before the game and the oppostion shake all the home tema members hand, but you refuse,WHAM! You have just passed over all your emotional power. Als in another big celbrity bust up, there together, there not, then they are then they are not. How many affairs must it take before you leave your partner, and why go back to him after you have recieved another black eye! What does Julia make of all this.