What's Wrong With You?

The Buzz... There is something quite wrong with you and I can't quite put my fanger on it. You talk, you laugh loud, chew with your mouth open..but that's not what bothers me. Maybe you had a problem in your childhood with one of your parents. Maybe you were poor or grew up ON THE SYSTEM, eeek. The Sting...When you meet folks do you automatically begin to dissect them mentally (tear them down and find what's wrong with them, like, ewww) and physically or are you trying to build an image of them so that you can be friends (she's just like me, OMG, best buds forever)? The Healing... Perception is the basis of relationships of all types. it is absolutely normal for folks to use their internal schema to loosely type cast people they encounter but what if you place ppl into a box never to be heard again? How much should you rely on past experiences and perceptions of a person, place, thing? Why don't we use the same schema as we are growing up with our family members/significant others/parental units? What makes them safe or are they?