Relationships - The Present is tied with the Past with Jef Gazley

Child, Marriage and Family Therapist Jef Gazley is our guest speaker talking about Relationships and how past conditioning and emotions control present Relationships. He says that most couples and many therapists believe that the top issues that break couples up are communication, finances, parenting, and sex. However, almost all the real fights are about Do you love me? Do you respect me? Are we equals? And Are you shaming me? All marital issues are really about these issues and these questions really come not from the present, but the past. Neuro Emotional Technique (NET) traces the present problems back to their original source which most of the time resides in their childhood and family of origin.