Family Squabbles

How do you deal with family squabbles?  Are they inevitable?  Are they real issues or have they been magnified into issues?  Are you really upset at a person, or is it the situation that's got you feeling discomfort?  Do you know the real truth about what has you upset/disappointed or is it pure hearsay and you are reacting from the reaction of another?  Think about it all and join the conversation, maybe your story will help help someone!