She Says It's Complicated: Women and Complex Relationships With Men

"I’ve been seeing a man for 4 months now. When we met, it was on a business trip and we instantly hit it off right away. Yes … he was wearing a wedding ring and at first I thought we might “just be friends,” but he quickly opened up and shared with me that he was very unhappy and had already made up his mind that he was going to leave his wife when he returned home from this trip. Wow, the timing couldn’t have been more perfect, had this chance meeting actually been planned for! Anyway, like I said, it’s been 4, almost 5 months now and he still hasn’t left her, or for all I know, even approached the subject with her." In the above excerpt from his latest book "She Says, It's Complicated," relationship specialist Shelby Hill shares with the reader what he calls "simple solutions for women in complex relationships with men." And the above scenario could not be any less complicated to be certain. In fact, in my recent interview with another fabulous author Rhonda Ricardo, we viewed the issue of relationships through the eyes of the men who have left their women and then ached to return,” and the reasons why many men ultimately just couldn’t say goodbye and why some knew they must. While research statistics indicate that it is actually the woman who files for divorce more than 75% of the time, it is clear that complexity in relationships is a gate that swings both ways. By providing the female perspective through his new book, Shelby perhaps treads where angels may fear to tread, but does so in such an adept and sensitive manner that both women and men can gain much from his unique insights. Joining me on today's program is none other than Shebly Hill.