Rewriting Your Experience

Have you ever said to yourself, "I wish that would have gone differently!" Well, why can't it? We replay these things over and over in our minds. Why not do that in advance? Why not take visualization and really use it? Why not use that in the moment, if both parties can choose to craft their experience together? 

What if they don't though? That can still pose a great question, can you create the experience you want to have internally even if someone else is having a different experience all together? Can you choose your internal climate, disregarding the pull of the others, or the social call to join the drama in the age old ways?