"Relationship Tuesday" Heal From Past Relationships To Help You Move On

Whether or not you believe in karma, fate, or destiny, we do have a great deal of control over many things that occur in our lives. Our outlook and the way in which we handle life’s challenges impacts our future. The energy we give off, which some people refer to as our aura, is what attracts people to us or repels them from us. This is true professionally, socially and romantically. We have all heard about people’s baggage - and I am not talking about luggage. The fact of the matter is that the less baggage we carry, the better our future will be. The good news is that we can do things to lessen our load, regardless of our past.

Do take personal responsibility for your contribution

We are living in a day and age in which almost nobody takes personal responsibility for their actions and behavior. A relationship involves two people and both are responsible one way or another in its success or failure. Self-awareness can be rather painful because it forces us to recognize our mistakes and imperfections. However, we must always remember that “to err is human” and nobody is perfect. Before taking on the role of victim and playing the blame game. 

Do give yourself the gift of forgiveness

Don’t let someone live rent free in your head. By refusing to forgive, you are allowing someone to live rent free in your head. Your ex may not know or even care that they continue to cause you such angst. In fact, if they knew, they might even relish in such knowledge.