Understanding how Your Man Thinks

Most Men are always shopping around for something better, "They can't help it." Really? Yes. Even when a guy really believes he is with the perfect girl, often he's still so unsure about his own life and direction that he doesn't want to close the door to possibility. Of course this doesn't mean you might not be with a man for years, or that he doesn't truly love you. But he looks.

Most Men like to respond, not initiate, unless we think they can get sex or something similar out of it." This is why a guy will never suggest "the relationship talk". Most Men would never say, I think we are having problems. Why don't we see a counsellor together? So, if you want to know something, don't wait for him to volunteer the information, ask away. Not all questions are good. If you ask whether he was flirting with the hot girl at the office, better not to put him on the spot. (He was) If a wife ask a loaded question and he answer it truthfully, there is a massive hole that I will fall into with no way to dig himself out. Unfortunately, getting him used to lying [about the little things] will set you up for a very big fall. In other words, practice makes perfect. We think it couldn't possibly take that long to figure it out. If you want to hold a man's attention, tell him the punchline first.

Men love their dog, they love pizza, they love footy and they love their partner. They have one and we don't know what you, women, think it means." What to do? Look for men who show, not necessarily say, they love you: by fixing your car, calling you out of the blue, or putting your needs before those of their mates.