060 RANDI GUNTHER: "Heroic Love"

So what REALLY happens after that splashy wedding? With over 100,000 hours and 40 years spent counseling couples, Randi Gunther steps forward with her revolutionary book “Heroic Love.” Randi's website is www.heroiclove.com.

“You cannot change what you're unwilling to see,” she says. “To be a hero you have to commit fiercely to your own spiritual growth and that of your partner.” TODAY on BOLD, she and LeGrande explore these “relationship killers”:

• People make critical mistakes at the beginning of the relationship, holding back their authentic selves

   

• People don't know how to keep their relationships fresh and exciting “They are too caught up in the hunt or getting to the wedding.”

   

• People don't understand what l