Hot Topic :"What do you bring to the table?" are you upset if asked by a Partner

This Sunday, CaribbeanRadio Show we will discuss, the hot question - "What do you bring to the table?" 8pm - 10pm dial in 661-467-2407, press 1 to talk or through the

Ladies, have you ever been asked this question? It made me a little upset. Why are you calling me and then asking what do I bring to the table?

Many times people say they know what they are looking for in a relationship, a spouse. Women and men say I want a person who makes a certain amount of money, has a certain job, looks a certain way, good credit, nice car, and educated. Someone who can help me accomplish my goals in life.There is nothing wrong with wanting certain characteristics in a mate. And there is nothing wrong with wanting someone who can help you accomplish your goals in life. Most of these however, are outward things. And if that is who you are, then you need to recognize that is who you are. Are you bringing the same or equal qualities to the relationship, to the table?

You meet a person, and they have the job, money, education, credit and the looks you want. Well let’s say they have most of the qualities you are looking for; and you get married. Then lhappens, and maybe someone gains weight, loses hair, job/career changed, credit gets damaged, had to down size the car. Now the rubber is meeting the road. Is this relationship built on sand or on rocks? What is the foundation of the relationship?