Hi Bedroom Playmates
Are you in a relationship (lesbian or heterosexual) and you find yourself with a side piece? What led to this circumstance? Were you not happy in the bedroom? Is your husband/wife on the road a lot? Do you feel that you don't have enough sex? What happen if you fall in love with your side piece? Do you leave your partner to be with that individual? Is it more acceptable for a man to have a "side-piece" than it is for a woman? Why or why not? I've heard the saying that "I have to have a lover on the side to stay happy."
On the flip side...are you the side piece to a man or woman in a relationship? If so, is this your preference? If it is...why don't you want to be in a committed relationship with someone who is not attached? What attracts us to those that are taken? Do we feel we missed out on something? Or is it the thrill of the moment?
This is going to be an excellent discussion! I can't wait to hear your thoughts.