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Susan Lager

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Susan Lager is a psychotherapist, author, and relationship coach at her private practice, The Couples Center PLLC, in Portsmouth, NH. She is the Founder and Principal of Couplespeak™, the unique and innovative company providing exciting programs and vital tools for transformational relationship success. She has authored many published articles, as well as two new workbooks in The Couplespeak™ Series: "I'M TALKING! ARE YOU LISTENING?" FIX COMMUNICATION PROBLEMS WITH YOUR PARTNER IN NO TIME FLAT! is a short, humorous guide for the "do's" and "don't's" of better communication in close relationships. Her latest book "BECOME RELATIONSHIP SMART WITHOUT A LIFETIME OF THERAPY" is a useful resource for anyone wanting more joyful, meaningful relationships. Susan also gets “up close and personal” in two blogs, has produced a series of “Learn To Love” videos on her YouTube channel, and is available as a show-stopping speaker at special events in her “spare" time. You can reach her at her Portsmouth, New Hampshire office at: 603-431-7131

On-Demand Episodes

Hate your job and can't quit it right now? Then on Wednesday, 11/6/13 at 8:30 PM, tune into this one hour episode, featuring dynamic Portsmouth, NH Career Counselor, Andrea St. Jean as Susan Lager's co-host. We'll be discussing vital... more

In this episode, Susan Lager co-hosts again with Ashley Davis Bush LCSW, a well known psychotherapist in southern NH who specializes in grief counseling and couples work. She is a frequent Huffington Post blogger, and the author of... more

In this half hour episode Susan Lager discusses some useful techniques to manage a bad mood and not let it ruin the day. The episode is part cognitive therapy, part mindfulness, part behavioral therapy, part neuroscience and part... more

In this episode, Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, explores the key attitudes and behaviors for enjoying your summer, regardless of you "partnered" status. On the agenda will be Ideas for solo or partnered activities,... more

In this episode, Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach shares with listeners a twenty question evaluation which is designed to determine the strengths and weaknesses in any marriage. Professional marriage counselors... more

In this half hour episode, Susan Lager explores the different aspects of open communication, or conversations which encourage and allow emotional safety, curiosity and connection, as compared with communication which fosters... more

In this half hour episode, Susan Lager explores the benefits of an apology on both the wrongdoer as well as the impact on the wronged person in a hurtful situation or event. She also touches upon the "How To" of an effective, heartfelt... more

Susan Lager co-hosts this episode with Michele Rosenthal, a post-trauma coach, keynote speaker, award-winning blogger, and author of the critically acclaimed PTSD recovery book, Before The World Intruded. Together they explore the... more

In this episode Susan Lager, a New England psychotherapist and relationship coach, explores the issue of how knowing one's own hangups can vastly improve any relationship. Using some key tools from her newest workbook "Become... more

In this episode, Susan Lager, a New England psychotherapist and relationship coach, discusses the usual ways people reflect upon the past year, and how looking back can be more productive when using some new markers of change.... more
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