You read the title of this show correctly. We didn't make a mistake when we created it because there are so many of our mates who feel just this way. On the outside many will make sure to appear as though their relationships are loving and highly supportive, but behind closed doors it can be a totally different balance in the chemistry of that relationship. This might not be everyone, but there are many who actually LOVE when their mate is hurting and feeling down. These types of spouses will only show love as long as their mate is depressed and on their last leg, but as soon as things are looking up for them either within their spirit on in their situation, the oppression begins! These spouses will work overtime to work against their mate in ways that will sabotage any plans of positivity and advancement. But yet they are like that cat who plays with the mouse enough to keep it too weak to escape but strong enough to amuse it in its struggle. This transpires in both sexes and is more common than most might think, it's definitely dysfunctional and sometimes a generational curse passed down from the behavior that was absorbed from a damaged upbringing. She is a master manipulator and knows her man well. She knows the things that make him laugh as well as the thoughts that can make him cry. She can place his mind where ever she wishes and uses this power over him as the ultimate form of control. All because she gets the ultimate thrill from seeing her man hurt! On this night we are going to dissect a very real situation that I don't believe many would admit to actually existing. You see, I've been involved in a union such as this and know how devastating it can be on ones psyche and how it can cripple your confidence for years to come.