couples & condoms with Julia Armstrong

A recent study showed that couples who use "we" resolve issues much better than couples who express their problems in terms of I or me. Why is this? Condoms, if a man initiates condom use he is looked upon differently by both men and wom, likewise with women, if "she" intiates condom use then the reaction of both men and women are completly different. An interesting argument in the relationship mangle.