Women and Their Dating list and Men Courting Women after Dating

Join the ladies as they discuss women having dating list or specifics about the man that are looking for to date. Kind of like qualifications before they even get to now a man. Does this type of thinking do the women a disservice? Do these women miss out on good men because of these so called dating list? Seriously, nobody is perfect so are women looking for something they cannot offer themselves? Also, the ladies will talk about men courting women to get them then not doing it after they begin a relationship. Should a man continue to court his woman even after he has landed her? Is shivelry dead?