Near death experiences/ Attentiveness, nagging or light stalking?

We have all had times when we feel like we have cheated death whether it was an illness, an accident of some kind, violence, a stunt gone wrong, incarceration or whatever life throws at us. No matter what, we all have reasons to be thankful that we are still here. What's yours? Are you an attentive person to the ones you love? Do you nag? Do you stalk? There are differences between the 3 and many times it depends on your perception. The reasons we do any of the 3 can vary. Let's get into it.