Hey Brynn... What about gay people?

My friend Brynn will be joining me to talk about what the bible says about Homosexuals. How do we as christians respond in truth AND love? That is the hard part ..isn't it? We know God says it is wrong but if we say we believe that we are labeled as biggots and haters. As cChristians hate is not ok. We do not hate homosexuals any more than we hate people who live together unmarried but the bible says BOTH are wrong! Now what do we do? How do we act? what do we say? DO we bake cakes? Cater weddings? Let them hold hands in church? Is it lifestyle choice or DNA. Does Homosexuality belong in the same list as tall,short,black, white,skinny, fat?  Lets have a real discussion about this problem.