Integrity;too superficial;2nd half of life;newborn engrossed

Dr Julie Helmrich, famous Shrink'n'Drink psychologist from Milwaukee, answered these questions: 1) productivity and integrity, 2) hard time connecting with others because not deep enough, 3) how to start over at age 45? 4) totally engrossed in new 1 month old infant and less connected now to 4 yr old, 5) what to do with someone who keeps picking a fight? 6) depression habits, 7) husband won't tell in-laws I'm not the reason for his disconnection from them.