NewYr resolutions; too tipsy to remember NewYr date request

Dr Julie Helmrich, Shrink n Drink psychologist answers these questions: 1) New Year's resolutions: better to add good behaviors or give up bad behaviors, 2) Too tipsy to remember a New Year's eve connection and agreed to go on a date, 3) Why do I focus on the 10th person disliking me, if 9 out of 10 do like me? 4) How to tell if someone is dating me for me or just playing? 5) How can I tell family members that I can't afford to do stuff they ask me to do? 6) How do I know if I am judgemental or if I just have an opinion about something.