What is a "Happily Married Man?"

Hill Harper made a valid point on the ABC Nightline Face-Off: "Why Can't a Successful Black Woman Find a Man?" Men who ARE happy in relationships are not sharing. They are not vocal enough. Single Men don't know the true benefits of being in a committed marriage. Men, stand up! If you are "Happily Married" PLEASE tell us what that means. Give the rest of us an idea of what to look for; what to expect.