What does it takes to be a Pastor's wife and What do they DEAL with

There are so many Pastors wives that are challenged with this area: some are dealing with several factors in this area: Is is possible that many that do not understand how to function in this role: There are some that married into this for a purpose and truly are misrepresenting themselves in a negative way: Attitude, character means a lot, however is the pressure being put on by the husband or the church...Let's talk about it...