Don't Call Me Baby's Mama

We all know that the terms "baby's mama" & "baby's daddy" are not known to be very positive when describing your co parent. These terms or phrases are stereotyped with ghetto, lazy, deadbeat, unimportant, etc. These are definitely not something a decent parent would want to be associated with. Still all the time we constantly hear one another use this term. How can we as parents communicate and co-parent hearing one another use these terms negatively. Is is possible in our society?