"Family talk Wednesday" The Results of keeping YOUR CHILD from their Father

The most difficult aspect of mutual parenting is that it requires frequent communication, when you'd probably prefer to have nothing whatsoever to do with each other. One way or another, your joint responsibilities will have to include making it possible - and enjoyable - for children to be closely in touch with each parent. 

What is perplexing, however, is the tendency for women to use their children as ammunition, as part of an intricate ploy to somehow strike back at their ex-partner. This retaliation is often due to any wrongdoing [ongoing or not] that may have been committed by the man in question – be that adultery, stealing, lying, etc. Ridiculous, I know – yet all too real. As far as I’m concerned, it doesn’t matter what the man may have done – provided that it is not something that puts his child in direct danger – if his sp*erm went into assisting with producing the child’s life, he should have the right to access the child at his leisure. Like it or not, that child is as much his as it is the woman’s and in spite of one’s seething anger toward him, which we hope will one day subside because we all know that “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned,” it’s just never okay for a woman to use a child against a man or vice