"Not hungry, but Thanks for offering". Where has the Sexual appetite gone?

Where does it go? What happens to the desire after time passes? And why does it seem that "that" time is getting shorter? It's, Sex, such a important thing at the beginning..........lag...........then important again. Why? And for so many Women and Men it has become a deal breaker if not done to a standard. Do we just not have time for patience anymore? What happened to training them up like you like? Join Holly, Taylor, and myself for a discussion that's hopefully going to answer more questions than it creates.