Self-love for life and relationship

Quite frequently those that are either married or single are struggling with the idea of self-love. In simplicity, self-love is the pursuit of internal happiness while not relying on external source to make you happy.

Your partner is not and should not be the source of your happiness for they were not created for such purpose. A great relationship is made when two individuals are independently (not dependently) happy.

Likewise, it’s self-destructive when you derive happiness from people’s comments and likes on your social posts. Reality is that these comments are not always going to be positive and if they are, they will not always going to be constant.

There are two levels of happiness: Internal and External. Always pursue the internal one as that should always be constant. Have joy in the fact that you exist, you are created equal not bigger or lesser than anyone else, and the fact that God has given you the ability(ideas, knowledge, and strength) to share something(either it’s well received by people or not).