How can we heal the abused without healing the abuser?

We all want this epedimic of Domestic violence to end! The reality is how can we help it end if were not facing the pink elephant in the room! We all focus on the abused so much we fail to realize this all starts with the abuser. There the person that caused the issues.So we need to get to the bottom of were there anger or issues are/were stemming from. Maybe they witness it? Maybe them there selves were abused? Bottom line is it needs to be addressed because healing only the abused is only half the problem. At the end of the day .Have you ever heard that saying hurt people hurt other people. That's real! The root of the problem is to get into the head heart and mind of the abuser. If not the cycle will continue! Let's talk!