I have a child from another relationship. My fiance doesn't want to be around her, help!

Questions for this weeks Questions:

1. My brother is un attracive. My self esteem is up and down because some people think we look alike and some say we don't look anything alike. I'm scared I will end up looking like my brother. I want to be in a relationship but my self esteem is lacking can you help me?

2. My fiance and I have been together for 4 years. I have a 9 year old daughter and he's taken a fatherly like role. He plays bad cop and I'm good cop when it comes to my child. He told her she couldn't go to a school dance and I said yes behind his back. He got so mad and said he doesn't want anything to do with her anymore. Do I leave or stay in our relationship? If he can't handle my child then he can't be with me either.

3. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months. He used to give me so much attention. Now he's much busier with work. He isn't making me feel the way he should make me feel. Should we stay together?