If you dont, someone else will

This topic will discuss cheating, sex as a weapon, and other excuses that people tend to come up with as to why they suddenly stop being intimate with their spouses. Men this one is for yall, I want to hear from you, as to why you cheat, or the reasons you stop getting it in with her?

Ladies, what your excuse? Menopause, medical reasons or just getting bad sex as to why you no longer want to give it up.