LAW LOVER’S LOUNGE: “I think that I am about to be sued for divorce…now what?”

Our LAW LOVER'S LOUNGE™ series addresses a general overview of some of the most important issues to the general public! Attorney Courtney E. Anderson has owned a general practice law firm since 1998 in Texas, USA. A general practice attorney is similar to a general practice physician in that they address issues that do not require a specialist. We call this series its title because we do love law! Seriously.

This is a lounge because these are general discussions on general legal topic for public information purposes. There is no client relationship created between this show and Attorney Courtney E. Anderson, or The Law Offices of Courtney E. Anderson (Litigation-Mitigation.com). These disclaimers are very important. The content in these shows is for general educational purposes and is not the delivery of legal services. 

This episode addresses the topic of, “I think that I am about to be sued for divorce…now what?”

Find out if you have a reason for this belief or if it is simply your imagination. Ask your spouse. If they are not available, ask your friends and family. Also, talking to a professional counselor is a good idea.

Do not engage in violence (or threats of violence). Do not “push the buttons” of your spouse to try to make them become violent. This often backfires and people can lash out in ways you never imagined possible. Do not do this.

Shut up. Talking to people about the situation beyond your attorney and closest friends and family will not help. Remember that people you talk to may serve as witnesses against you in a divorce proceeding so just be quiet. 

Get your financial house in order (inventory of stuff and debts). 

Stay focused on the future. No matter what happens, you will be fine. You are not your marriage, it is simply a part of your experience.