Got Damn Monday : Why Oh Why

It's misty outside and as I was driving home I asked a whole lot of why's.....Like why is so hard for a man to respect a woman who just wants to be HIS friend... Im confused I have more male friends than i do female and it's still so complicated keeping the " I like her"ones at bay.Like they truly get upset and do stupid things like not answer your calls or treat you different when they final realize that they're just a friend. Somebody tell me why?